Fight for the fairy tale, it does exist

Quote by Joy.F

When I was a little princess I lived high up on a hill, I had a pink room papered with tiny rose buds and was surrounded by dolls and love.  I was a lucky little lady, and as I grew (perhaps its the only child in me) I expected the best and knew that my knight in shining Dad armour would protect me from the horrors of the world.

My childhood was padded, corners were eradicated with strategically placed cushions. My garden toys, slide and swing both had protective rubber at the bottom – heaven forbid I hit the rough edges of the grass.

Due to health issues Gluten was my nemesis, so I battled hard with the force that is ‘My Mummy’, she checked labels, made from scratch and in an era without gluten free foods abundant on supermarket shelves and with no access to the internet she became the lighthouse of knowledge on all things GF. At birthday parties I had a packed lunch, at play dates she baked biscuits…she was my Delia delight because I was never once aware of being any different from anyone else.

I was allowed the freedom to be what ever I wanted to be. This was one of the greatest gifts that my family gave me. The gift to dream.

I kissed many frogs – some more ‘Toad of Toad Hall’ than had any handsome prince potential, but a young girl has to find these things out for herself. Its part of the adventure and makes for a fabulous cliff hanger.

I became an amalgamation of most of the Disney Princess’s, my imagination is at times so far fetched I have trouble working out how to get back to reality. I can be as feisty and independent as Elsa (although I could never live on a snow capped mountain, I’m pathetic in the cold weather), as vulnerable as Cinderella; sometimes we need to be whisked away and cared for, although I would never be so careless as to mislay a shoe, plus I’m not a night owl so I worry about turning into a pumpkin at the stroke of midnight if I’m not tucked up in bed with a camomile tea by my side (so ghetto).

I can be as care free as Lilo, my labrador is more practical than stitch – she can fetch. Ive had my wild Merinda hair moments and had to overcome situations beyond my comfort zone.

I am a princess. I live the fairy tale.

I also have a career, my own family, responsibilities and Ive become a woman that carries tissues and light snacks in her handbag amongst the Dior lipgloss and DKNY sunglasses.

If you think I have it all, you are wrong – there would never be a sequel if happily ever after was so simple. I battle my own demons and struggle with my own issues daily, have things I want to improve, goals I want to reach BUT I choose to look through fairy tale glasses.

It’s a choice like what I’ll eat at Breakfast. Fairy tale eyes let’s me escape the dull and mundane and with the average Disney film lasting approximately 90minutes I still have time to fantasise and do the dishes…I’m just waiting for seven dwarfs to arrive and half a dozen bluebirds to dust my living room. You can get these on Amazon right?

Perspective is something I often end up writing about, I’m sure its because as I grow mine alters and experiences cause me to change my opinions. This quote is shouting out that you can already have the fairy tale – that you’ve been living it since the day you was born…if thats how you decide to see each day.

Perhaps you aren’t a natural glass half full person, or may be you’ve been the ugly sister, Genie in the lamp for others for a little too long. For what its worth I believe you can still go to the ball, live happily ever after and slay any dragons along the way. To do this will take courage to change and small steps to a better tomorrow, but if we’re honest we have all wondered what happened to the ugly sisters anyway….perhaps they won the lottery, found some spiritual alignment, loved themselves and ran away in the night with a hansom man from another kingdom. Or may be they learnt to knit, sorted that cupboard out and got dinner ready on time to watch Eastenders.

Enjoy the journey of your own happy ever after. what Disney character resonates with you?




30 thoughts on “Fight for the fairy tale, it does exist

  1. What a great outlook, I’m more ‘glass half empty’ and I think it’s because I’m a Wednesday’s Child (aka full of woe) but you’re right, sometimes you just need perspective! I like to think I’m a Mulan type – tough and determined – but I’m probably more like Sleeping Beauty, because who doesn’t need to sleep for a thousand years, amiright? haha!

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  2. This is a lovely post. Really makes you step back and think about your own “happily ever after.” We all have elements of the princesses in us. Sometimes you have to look past the mom life and the wife work and really remember who you are (and were) to see it.

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  3. I love this and you are so right to look at life through your disney-tinted glasses. Nothing proves this more than when you hear children laugh. Proper belly laughs and normally at something small and simple. I don’t know when we lose that ability ourselves – maybe when we have bills and responsibilities and realise that life doesn’t always work out the way you want. But we owe it to ourselves and our kids to keep smiling and keep dreaming. Because I’m a firm believe that if you dream big and believe it, it will come true! #marvmondays

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    1. Absolutely. Thanks for commenting. I’m a huge dreamer…like HUGE. I also never lost the ability to laugh hard, so look for joy and bring it back – that’s serious role modelling


  4. I think as I’ve grown I’ve thought of the so called villains in fairy tales, like you said- the ugly sisters. Hopefully they were referring to their inside and not their outside? ๐Ÿค” What about the Wicked Witch in The Wizard Of Oz? I’d be pissed if someone dropped a house on my sis lol… I dunno, I think I’m living happily ever after- but things are never simple. Ps, my fav Disney Character… is Maleficent ๐Ÿ˜

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  5. Damn right – choose those fairytale glasses – what a lovely way of looking at the world. I can relate to Frozen’s Anna – a bit clumsy and goofy but as determined as hell and also GINGER :-)…. Who doesn’t see the lovely guy in front of her for a while because she’s dazzled by smarmy gits like Hans (I got there in the end though and have my very own Cristoph now though).

    i also really like the Tangled version of Rapunzel – I think it’s the determination again…. xx #eatsleepblogRT

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  6. Gosh I have never thought about what Disney Princess I would most relate to. My daughter always wanted to be Ariel, she even has the reddish hair down to her waist. As a child I was probably Ariel too not that I knew of her then, but I was always in the water. My dad used to take me snorkelling amongst rock pools and it was in the water I felt most at home. Now though I am not sure, hmmm maybe Mulan I think, because she would fight for what she believes in and doesn’t need a prince to complete her, although my hubby is awesome #mg

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  7. I’ve always thought of myself as having a Pollyanna attitude (which isn’t quite Disney but it’s up there with the American greats, right?). I need to give my Disney equivalent some thought, but thanks for the insight and encouragement xx #EatSleepBlogRT

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  8. I love Merida from Brave. Like love her want to be her in a seven year old kind of way. My husband has red hair and I’ve got the curls…I secretly have a dream of a redheaded little lady and calling her Merida ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š #fortheloveofblog

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  9. I love this – I’d love to be Pochahontas if I could choose. But I completely agree with you, you have to make it your own version of a fairytale…me and my partner aren’t married but are perfectly happy and that’s all that matters. Really love this post! xx #marvmondays

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