Roll with it

Quote from my Instagram page @fridgesays

It’s 1:20am and I can’t sleep, the unknown has taken over. I’m not panicked, I’m not particularly fearful but I’ve no idea what being a Teacher means. Just after 5pm today I like most of the nation expected Mr Johnson to shut the shop up on schools and was ready to bed down with my family and wait for the storm to pass, which if you read the headlines you may perceive as truth… to me he said much more.

He said “exams in May and June won’t be happening” that’s two years of mine and my students life that were made practically obsolete in seconds… of course they’ve learnt things that will stay with them, but I somehow feel robbed for them so close to the finish line. I truly adore my yr 11 classes and I’m not even sure if I’ll see them again? I doubt they will have a prom, perhaps in these times that seems superfluous but to those that have bought ‘the dress’ and dreamed of that evening they were robbed by a virus.

He said “schools will stay open for those that are vulnerable “ and my heart bled for every head teacher and headship team across the country…what does that even look like? How will that be staffed? What will we teach? How will we know who to prepare for…rolling with it seems vague and uneasy.

He said “we will baby sit the nations key workers children” and my profession and career goals became a blur. On one hand proud to serve my country in some kind of capacity (many thanks to the NHS and emergency services teams for all you do and will continue to do)… on the other hand that’s not why I teach secondary? Selfishly questioning why I should leave my child to help out another’s, worrying that by sending my son to school that I might expose him…where did the plan to wrap him up go?

I also know that this can alter again in the next few days, the dynamics of what was asked are so complex and a national lock down is coming our way but I wanted to write in this moment and capture these thoughts that have separated me from my pillow because I think it will be a huge shift in how we move forward, in my sense of purpose, in what Education is and looks like after this moment.

And then I laugh at the image that I honest created prior to the demand in toilet rolls and as I smile. I know it will all work out. It will be okay. I know it will be an honour to look after each and every child that comes through our school gates and I’m glad that the government is thinking about free school meals and the impacts on financially vulnerable families. I know that our priority across the world is our health. We will thrive and in my classroom we will learn what really matters and perhaps until now that was never on the curriculum.

#kindnessiscontagious

2 thoughts on “Roll with it

  1. This is the post I never knew I needed until I woke up early in a panic this morning. My girl is devastated about her (now nonexistent) GCSE exams, more annoyed about the vague lack of details and firm plans ahead, and that Friday may well be her last ever day at school. No prom, no result day, no leavers lunch. Two festivals and her holiday cancelled on top. However, instead of letting the fear and disappointment eat us all up, I’m trying to move her focus and we’re taking about the amazing things we can do once this over, how we’ll get dressed up and go somewhere fancy for ‘fake prom’. I know it seems utterly selfish right now but it’s ok to feel whatever emotions are happening. Thanks for the uplifting words and sending you all the good vibes and stuff! ❤️

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    1. Dude, I just need to sleep tonight lol. Yeah, complex times and it’s ok to feel what we feel…it passes. Yes to getting dressed up and pass it on to her friends, a lot of my yr 11s found comfort in it.

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