Quote Anon
I was looking at the Mr today and thought ‘he’s a keeper’ and realised that this quote truly summed up how I felt. So this post is all about gratitude for the relationships I already have. I often think about what I want for the future and always slide into the trap of reflecting on what I lack, but Js Daddy and my Mr F is a non negotiable.
My son is equally amazing but also (only I and the Mr can say this – anyone else who dared would feel my wrath) and absolute w*nk*r. Seriously, he is five years old and can go from a cute an angelic over achiever to a whinging douche bag faster than the speed of light. I really love him though, less so at dinner when he takes 5 hours to eat his meal due to procrastinating and sharing every fact he has ever learnt to anyone that will listen. I did worry when I was pregnant with him that I might not like him. Luckily Mother Nature throws more than enough love between a mother and child moments after birth that lasts you a life time.
Both my boys have helped me to flourish, dared me to dream and supported me when I’ve taken on new adventures. The Mr is a great sounding board and is one of those really annoying humans that is always right, which in the moment is infuriating but with age I’ve learnt to listen to him more and he is a wonderful team member, he also has other skills like taking the bins out and fixing stuff that is beyond my realms of interest.
I remember the early days of dating Mr F and from day one I have never thought I would have a tomorrow without him, he is a constant – how did that happen? The children, the house, the pets and the adult discussions about which wallpaper to pick and the exciting text’s we send each other, the last three from him read…
“We’ve gone to Judo”
“buy bread”
“and milk”
I mean, if thats not romance what is? The other night we were in bed and I said something about how we had basically had a ten year sleepover, whilst reading his book he muttered “the snacks are naff” and we both burst out laughing. We laugh a lot, usually at my expense, or at dogs on YouTube, or at our little dude making sense of the world around him. I never take it for granted though.
Anyway, rather than read my rambling thoughts on the boys in my life, perhaps take some time this week to think about who you are blessed to have in your universe. Not in a Hallmark cards way (those quotes never inspire me), or in a list of what they do for you way, instead I urge you to think about how they make you feel because stirring those emotions is the essence of tomorrows relationships and having a tribe that works for you, that completes your puzzle or that helps you to come construct a better puzzle for the future is worth its weight in Halloumi (I prefer Halloumi to Gold).
Love hard and stay true to yourself.
Cute af! 😍
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This is lovely. If you would have told me when I met my husband over 10 years ago that we would still be together now with a family I would have never believed you. But now I can’t imagine living the next 10 years without him. #thesatsesh
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It’s odd isn’t it? Like, it actually blows my mind
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A lot of blessings to count #thesatsesh
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Absolutely
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…you just need to raise your game on the snacks front and then you’ve got it all. Another laugh out loud post, perfect for a Saturday morning read! #thesatsesh
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It’s true, I’m not sure about popcorn in bed ?
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Lucy, this made me cry (it’s ok, I’m a perimenopausal mess). So lovely. Sigh. Your Mr boy sounds fab. I love those chats in bed though don’t you? Perfect moments. #thesatsesh
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Don’t forget he is also a moron, just my moron 😉
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What a lovely post. I also, prefer halloumi to gold! Pen x #thesatsesh
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Halloumi is a god in my opinion
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Lovely post, we do tend to take a lot of what we have for granted. I know I should be more thankful. It has a lot to do with accepting people as they are. #thesatsesh
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It’s hard to do some times, but worth working towards
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Laughter is key to a relationship I believe. #thesatsesh
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Yes! And food
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Love this quote and can so see how it relates to me and the hubster too – the ‘sleep over’ anecdote made me laugh – you 2 seem hlilarious together 🙂 xx #thesatsesh xx
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That last line really does say it all! Otherwise, we lose purpose until something comes along to put things in perspective. Lovely post! #thesatsesh xoxo
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Thanks twinkle
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