Seriously wise and on the surface completely right. Effort equals reward…doesn’t it?
Sometimes I find in class that whilst the little demons get praise for sitting on a chair for thirty seconds, the effort of the averages go unnoticed – they try and effort is their best friend but sometimes society over looks effort.
When I do my hair because we are going out out and I feel amazing, Mr F doesn’t always notice. In fact sometimes I’m not sure he has even noticed that I’m siting across the table from him. Effort can be transparent
Before you think I’m off my usual positive vibes, wait because a sprinkle of joy is moments away.
I don’t think a feeling of accomplishment can come from anyone other than yourself, sure they can praise you (or in Mr Fs case notice my existence) but for me the joy and delight of accomplishment is the warm fuzzy feeling you feel, deep inside that you can’t bottle, inject or give away and that means one thing…
You can always put effort in and enjoy your own acccomplishment.
When you are enough, when you love you enough and you know you tried your best – the outcome becomes irrelevant.
When I feel good and know I’ve taken pride in my appearance, when I’ve put effort into an activity or outing and the family are ‘loving life’ I can take accomplishment.
If accomplishment was a neighbour, she’d take in your parcels for you. She might even drop in a couple of slices of cake after an afternoon of baking. She would be a good neighbour, one you’d always make the effort for.
So, in the week ahead and with a clean slate, let’s give the effort that we can, absorb the accomplishment that we feel and may be recognise the effort of others that we surround ourself in. After all, kindness and recognising other people’s positives is free and may just make somebody else’s day.
I just adore the way you write. That bit about the neighbour and accomplishment had me nodding along. #eatsleepblogrt
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Haha she’s lovely is old Mrs accomplishment 🙂
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All of this – just all of it – wonderful wise words as always my lovely and this post will definitely stay with me so thank you! #MarvMondays xx
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Thanks Hun – that’s very delightful of you to say so 🙂
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Love this. I posted last week about how paying someone a compliment can make someone’s day. I think we all need to be a bit kinder. Thanks for joining us for #marvmondays
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Couldn’t agree more. Compliments from strangers are more powerful apparently?
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Such a lovely post – and very apt this Monday morning! #eatsleepblogrt
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I’m going to count the many ways I heart your sparkly self so much. no, wait…maybe I need to create post…there’s more space there =) Love your post my friend!! And so true!
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Very wise words. Getting recognition for our effort is always nice but just knowing yourself that you have done something well or tried that bit harder is just as important. #tuesdaytreasures
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I agree. I wish more people enjoyed their own opinions, rather than wait for others.
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I always live off of my own sense of accomplishment rather than rely on others for it. That way I am never disappointed.lol! #tuesdaytreasures
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Ohhh I love your name – it’s mine and my daughters combined. As a result do you find it easier to stay happy?
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I like your thinking! And it’s true, when you put more effort into something, you do feel more satisfied afterwards! x
#MarvMondays
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Truth and love found here, thanks for commenting it’s truly appreciated Sabrina
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Here here. Screw everyone else who says nothing. Let’s big ourselves up a bit more. We are awesome after all. #candidcuddles
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Haha indeed babes. Couldn’t agree more
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I totally agree, that feeling of accomplishment within ourselves is a wonderful feeling. Thanks for linking up #TuesdayTreasures
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Thanks x here’s to self love and feeling awesome
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I think it’s so easy these days to concentrate on your own (perceived) failings, so I know I definitely need to let myself feel proud of my accomplishments, no matter how small I might consider them to be! #marvmondays x
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Gooooo Chelsea x
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Wow wow wow you have such a wa y with words and I need to come back to this regularly as the message is such a leveller and so inspiring. Great #candidcuddles offering.
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Cheers miss P
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